Elkaholics Anonymous

In Jackson, Wyoming for Neill and Natalie's wedding. It's a lot of fun to explore the States, particularly the western frontier for explorers of old.

No journey to the wild west is complete without a sample of the local heavy game. Dinner at the Gun Barrel was amazing. The restaurant building had been the site of the Wyoming museum of wildlife and history. There was a framed front page of a newspaper from 1900 reporting the violent deaths of the Russian envoy during the Boxer rebellion in Tien Tsin (Tianjin).

Here's a photo of me giving hearty thanks for a manly portion of buffalo ribs.

And Sharon devoured some velvety elk cutlets.

I sing the goodness of the Lord,
Who filled the earth with food,
Who formed the creatures through the Word,
And then pronounced them good.

~ Isaac Watts, 1784.

Third Time's a Charm

Los Angeles and Canada were in the bag. We needed Ireland to complete this trinity of wedding celebrations. The third of our celebrations took place on Sharon's home grounds in Co. Cork.

University College Cork (UCC) is where we first met as students. We had a great stroll down memory lane during the photo shoot in the college quad.














A service and dinner at Ardfallen with an unforgettable array of salads and cheesecakes. It was my turn to meet childhood friends, colleagues, and every extended family member of Sharon. What a blessing to also see friends I made while living in Cork seven years ago.
I never thought I'd give a groom's speech three times. But it did get easier after all the repetition.

A cord of three strands? How about three knots in a cord of three strands? Now we're well and truly married.

A Capital Celebration

Onward by train to Ottawa, where we celebrated a second time, mostly with friends and family who couldn't make it out to L.A.

A classic multi-course Chinese meal at Mandarin Ogilvie. This time, we ate the food.

The whole village showed up. A unique sense of gratitude filled me when I was surrounded on this occasion by those who watched me graduate from diapers.

I felt as if a big piece of the puzzle slotted into place when Sharon and my in-laws met close friends, Sunday school teachers, pastors, and extended family. Can you pick out in this photo my relations from Sharon's?

Dinner meant a lot more than food. Martin's classic slideshow, footage from the ceremony in L.A., music, and a lot of laughs went down smoothly with the walnut shrimp.

In the footsteps of William

The quaint heritage-style town of Stratford, Ontario is famous for its Shakespeare Festival, the River Avon, scrumptious gourmet dining, and its swans. To me, it's also immortalized as the setting for our first week of marriage. If ever there was a relaxing honeyfourdays, this was it. Coming from L.A., vacation means a day without driving. Needless to say, being strolling distance from knock-me-down poutine, ice cream, and Tim Horton's with my wife on my arm - I was a happy man.

Grab a cup of tea and check out the photo album of our honeymoon in Stratford, Ontario.

New Family New Blog :D

Welcome back to our blog. Since we have now become one, Andrew and I are joining forces to keep this blog updated with the goings on of our new family here in LA or where ever the Lord may take us in the years to come. We hope you will enjoy reading our updates and seeing our photographs over the years. Andrew or I will try to update this weekly. Keep in touch!

Andrew and Sharon Fung

The Doldrums

A friend of Andrew's who is also planning his wedding at the moment put it very well...we're in the doldrums... that is, we ain't doing much. In my case it's an I ain't doing much. Andrew is doing quite a lot. He's writing his thesis, in fact, he has less than two weeks to write his thesis. As for me...I'm in the doldrums. I'm not doing anything substantial in terms of wedding planning and that makes me uncomfortable. I feel like I should be climbing the walls right now. I feel like my Saturdays should be filled with plans and activities. Instead, I went to the spa last Saturday and I'm planning on sleeping this Saturday. But I should be doing SOMETHING-right? Like...hmmm...I can't think of anything...HELP!

Apartment

We have an apartment! What a surprise! We went out Saturday morning on our first apartment viewing, taking precious time from Andrew's dissertation writing, we had scheduled three apartment viewings for the next three Saturday mornings hoping that an early viewing wouldn't impede too much on Andrew's time. We want to move into our apartment as soon as we return from Ireland and Canada on the 30th of July, the earliest date we expected to be able to move in was the 1st of August, leaving us in a hotel for two nights. Most of the apartments I had contacted told us that they wouldn't know until 30 days before move in if there was any available units, that would mean ringing complexes around our wedding time and maybe even from abroad to check availability. Our plan was to look at various complexes and decide on our favourites, then ring them from Ireland or Canada in the hope that there would be an availability in August-not the best way to do things, but the only way we could because we don't want to pay for an apartment in July when we wouldn't even be living in LA all of that month.

So we went to the apartment complex. Geographically it was the closest for both of us to work. It was situated on a cul-de-sac, which made it nice and quiet (for LA) but it was also situated two blocks north and two blocks south of major roads = good transport!

A 'leasing expert' showed us around two apartments at first and we liked one of them. She was about to bring us back to the office when she remembered that there was one other apartment that was newly refurbished within our budget. She also remembered that someone was moving into that apartment for 3 months this week, which means that they would be moving out on the 23rd of July which would make the apartment available when we get back to LA! We couldn't believe it! And we really liked the apartment. We went away to think about it. She offered us some incentives to sign up that day. We thought about it and we returned and we paid our holding deposit. We couldn't believe how quickly we ended up finding a great apartment in a perfect location-and knowing it's availability way ahead of time! It's a great load off our shoulders, Andrew's time no longer needs to be impinged upon and we can also move in as soon as we return to LA. Jehovah Jirah!

Apartment website:

http://www.westparkvillageapts.com

Progress

A lot of things were done this past couple of weeks. Andrew and I had some engagement photos taken and we were really happy with them. The same guy is doing our wedding photos so that makes us even happier!

We're now in the process of designing our invitations-using these photographs-which is fun, but I can't get my head out of it either because I want to do everything NOW!!

On Saturday I had a dress fitting in the morning and my friend Seon came with me. We ended up heading out for the rest of the afternoon looking at chinese wedding dresses and I picked one! I love buying things on the spur of the moment-it feels like less work!

I also started designing our wedding programme last night.

This week we have our science fair on Wednesday so I am giving up all wedding activities and focusing on that. I'm looking forward to it!

Love Art

On Friday night I redeemed the groupon certificate that Andrew bought for me and we went to do our art project together. We went to this very authentic converted garage type art studio. This guy tried to make it all romantic for us, but unfortunately Andrew is stuck with a very unromantic O'Sullivan who refuses to play for the crowd so I didn't respond very well to his attempts... but I did enjoy doing the painting-because he left us on our own to paint our picture together, and here is our final piece:

On Sunday the sunday schools were learning about David and Goliath. One of the teachers had made a life size model of Goliath for the children to understand just how big he was-I thought it was quite cool.

4 months

It's 4 months to go and I feel very panicky and have lost motivation again. I can't even think of all the things I need to do. Oh well, I'm sure it'll all iron itself out. It's very strange getting married in a faraway country.

Looking forward to the weekend though :) Sleep in!

Recent Events

I apologise for my neglect of this blog over the last few weeks. It's been a strange couple of weeks. Just this past week my uncle, Jack, passed away, rather unexpectedly at the very young age of 57. I'll really miss Jack, especially when I go home in the summer and he's not at our wedding celebration or sitting at his home to chat with about all the highs and lows of diabetes! I think I nearly found it harder not to be at home this time because I wanted to be there for my aunt Marian and my cousins. I found it very frustrating not to be able to sympathise with them and be there for the removal and funeral. My dad did send me recordings of both of these services however, and Andrew and I were so encouraged by them. It was a positive joy to listen to people's testimonies of Jack and to listen to the music played at the funeral. I was rejoicing at what Christ had done for Jack in saving him at a young age and how that Salvation had an effect on his children and now his grandchildren. I can only pray that should I die before the Lord returns, that I could have such a testimony and such a funeral service! Redemption makes a life rich, without it we are empty. My hope now is to see the 'Goodness of God in the land of the living'.

I'm looking forward to rejoicing with Jack in person when I reach my heavenly home.

A Photo Story From Today

Andrew Studying

The rain from Andrew's balcony

Making Shepherdess Pie

Cutting one of the many vegetables

The left overs

Cookin'

Cookin'

Lid's on

The final product with feta cheese.
Hope Andrew doesn't mind the distinct lack of meat...

Right outside the apartment building
The aftermath of the rain-see how green it is?

Exercising!

What am I doing here? How did I get here? Andrew!! :P

The long awaited 24



The sound of rain in LA and Andrew gets freaky

Martin Luther King Jr. Birthday

Today is MLK Jr.day :) looking forward to my sleep in tomorrow. Won't mean anything unless I sleep first...
Tomorrow is blog update day as well, I have stories to tell of attending my first Jewish funeral.
Goodnight. Happy Monday.
It's raining in LA.

Blackberry Joy

I like gadgets-they make me happy :)
I just got a new Blackberry and I'm having a lot of fun playing with it. Right now I'm updating my blog with it which is just cool. It even has a nice camera! Yay!!

Guns and Acrylics

Well I'm back in LA, back to school and slowly but surely getting over jet lag. I'm trying to get back into wedding preparation mode but I'm very lethargic about it and I'm imagining myself a couple of weeks before the wedding cramming everything in!

A couple of interesting stories from my first week back.

I got acrylic nails! Evelyn, my roommate gave a manicure voucher for Christmas. My nails are really bad at the moment and they're in no fit state to be manicured, so I decided to get fake nails and see what they might be like.

They're interesting-all my nails are the same length now. They look pretty natural-I might do it for the wedding-saves me worrying about the state of my nails :)

Another interesting event for me happened on Sunday night after the evening service. Andrew and I were talking to our good friend who is a police officer. He was talking about helping out with the church security and how he was looking into that. He mentioned that he would be carrying a gun, so I expressed my surprise that he would be licensed to do it. He said that he would be because he's a police officer and I was again surprised because I thought they were only allowed to carry guns when they were working. He told me that this wasn't true and that he was even carrying one now on his ankle. I laughed and told him that he must be pulling my leg and because I refused to believe him, he lifted up his pants leg and I saw the gun on his ankle. I nearly had a heart attack when I saw it. It just shows how unused to that kind of thing I am.

Oh well...I'm definitely living in America :P

Heading home now, I think I might buy a blackberry on my way...

Monday in Ireland

Aaah! We're back on the Emerald Isle! It's good to be home :) Our bags didn't arrive with us however but they are on their way to us right now from the airport. So, although we spent two days without our clothes, Christmas gifts and some of my bridal party attire, we are now €120 richer and everything has returned (hopefully undamaged!)
Yesterday we went shopping in Bandon and we met up with some of my friends in O'Brien's cafe. We got to see Anne Marie and meet her boyfriend Colm, we met up with Gillian and Rachel and Gillian's new hubby. All the boys stationed themselves at one end of the table while we girls parked at the other end and had two separate conversations :P Our seats were very well placed on the outside of the cafe facing the main thoroughfare of Bandon shopping centre. This gave Andrew a taste of small-town Irish life because every few minutes we'd see someone we knew and they'd come over to say hello and the men would need to be introduced to these people over and over. Aaah I miss home...I think I'd like to do that again today :)
Tonight I am going to my first hen party ever! It just happens to be my own hen party too-interesting I've only ever been to kitchen parties. I think the first hen party I was ever invited to was Gillian's hen party but I couldn't make that one because I was already in LA. Thankfully my maid of honour has been to many hen parties and so is probably an expert at organising one! Will hopefully have some photos to post soon!

Lobster in My Hair

Today was a day of firsts. Well two major firsts-any other firsts are not really worth mentioning :)

First First:

I went curling for the first time :) This morning Andrew and I got out early to watch his dad curl. When I say curl I mean the stone curling kind, not the hair curling kind. It was a lot of fun to watch Mr. Fung play. He's really good! He did one shot and it got right into the middle of the blue circle! His team mates were really nice to meet as well and most of them were Irish-which of course is a huge asset! Then one of the very nice Irish gentlemen brought us down to the curling rink and let us have a go. He gave us a few pointers and we tried our best-it was fun :)

Second First:

Then tonight, we had lobster. Not just one lobster, but five lobsters, that is, a whole lobster each! It was very very nice. I had to get a few tips from Amy and Andrew on how to pull it apart etc But they're experts and they trained me well...you'd almost think they used to work for a restaurant at some point!

Having lots of fun! Loving the snow and looking forward to a white white Christmas!

Heading Home

So my apartment hasn't flooded-just yet...hopefully it will stay that way over Christmas.

Andrew and I are hoping to fly to Ottawa at 7am tomorrow morning for a week. We'll be heading to Ireland then on December 26th. Hopefully there will be no delays in Chicago tomorrow or leaving Ottawa and Washington D.C. next Saturday. Can't wait for our Christmas break!

We'll do some last minute Christmas shopping and pack our bags tonight. Roll on the end of the school day! Will hopefully have some nice photos to upload after the holidays.

Different Things

So it was raining today. I have walked around my room trying to get things up off the floor for fear of another flood (like the one this time last year) I really hope nothing like that happens again. I have visions of poor old Bandon in my head!
This past week my bridesmaid dresses arrived in the post, Andrew and I booked our caterer who is including our wedding cake for free-nice! And we went to Sojourners' Christmas banquet where Andrew fell into Will Varner's arms, which was just crazy :)
I will post some photos as soon as Andrew lets me have his memory card!

Calgary and Invermere

Aaah Calgary-I really like Calgary, I like the cold crisp weather, I like the tall pine trees, I like the lack of traffic and I love the Rocky mountains which are just down the road.
We spent the weekend with Andrew's sister Michelle, her husband, Andrew and her little boy, Matthew. We spent Thursday in Calgary and spent time with Andrew's Uncle Steven and Auntie Esther. We had great Dim Sum and did some shopping in the local asian market T&T.
On Friday we traveled to Invermere, B.C. to the McBride's newly built cabin by the lake. We had such a nice time. Their house is in the middle of a wooded area, a short walk from the beautiful lake/beach. They have a very nice delux hot tub at the back of the cabin-great for relaxing after a hard day in the mountains :)
On Saturday night we went out for dinner in a Scottish pub and there was a band there playing Irish music. I started chatting to one of the band members and it turned out he was from Kerry and they sang 'The Irish Rover' for me because it was a Cork song :) It was very nice to sit and listen and feel nostalgic about being Irish.
Andrew told Matthew some bible stories while we were there. He told him a story about 'The Good Shepherd' and he told him a story about Mr. Noah and the ark. On Sunday Matthew came into my room with Andrew's bible and proceeded to tell me stories from him it. Be careful how you tell a 3 year old stories:

"I'll tell you a story about Mr. Noah Sharon. Mr. Noah shut the door of the ark and wouldn't let any of the people or any of the animals on the ark. They were all in the water (this is from seeing a picture in his children's bible of animals and people drowning in the flood). Then Mr. Noah hit the Bad Shepherd with his stick. And then the Good Shepherd was on the ark and he saw some bad wolves on a mountain so he hit them with the ark"

Matthew tells a great story! :)